Be the first…

Be the first…

Be the first to break the ice and give him a hug…

Be the first to say “I love you” after a disagreement…

Be the first to apologize, when an argument spiraled out of control…

Sometimes breaking down walls in your marriage and experiencing breakthrough, is as simple as “being the first…”

Don’t let anger and bitterness build and fester in the “waiting…”

Waiting for him to say sorry…

Waiting for him to be affectionate…

Waiting for him to tell you how much he loves you…

That’s where the enemy likes to slide a foot in, and create division. Don’t give him the satisfaction of having that foothold in your marriage.

Crucify pride. Seek humility. Be the first…

“We love because He first loved us”

1 John 4:19

Ya know…just something that took me a whole 8 years of our 8 year marriage, to finally learn.