Don’t follow your “feelings”…have sex with your husband

You’ve “lost attraction” towards your husband?

Go have sex with him…

You feel “disconnected with him…”

Go have sex with him…

Every word that comes out of his mouth, is annoying to you?

Go have sex with him…

I’m so weary of seeing Christians adopt beliefs of the world like “you need to feel…to then do…” in regards to your spouse. This is the reason so many people’s marriages are falling apart…They’ve accepted the narrative of the world as normative.

Don’t fall for that trap. We are human and our flesh, by nature, is sinful…your flesh may “tell you” that you aren’t compatible with your husband anymore- subject that to the obedience of Christ. Pursue intimacy with him regardless of your “feelings”

There is something transformative in covenantal, marital sex. God’s anointing truly is on it.

Allow God to bring wholeness and restoration to your marriage…Enjoy the gift of sex with your husband. Do not make him earn it. It’s a gift given freely to both of you, as you step into covenant before the Lord. Do not follow the path of the world and the “feelings” you have. Submit those to Christ and obey Him.

Sex within marriage is not primarily for baring children, it is also an avenue that the Lord graciously grants us for unity, wholeness, transformation within our marriage and FUN. Enjoy it!

Drink water from your own cistern, flowing water from your own well. Should your springs be scattered abroad, streams of water in the streets? Let them be for yourself alone, and not for strangers with you. Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.

Proverbs 5:15-19